The emails (3 as of yesterday) tell me he is lying, cheating @sshole. I did contact the tech dept at work and they are blocking them from my inbox. They are coming from a website that sends anonymous emails.
JOB- when H agreed to MC he said he hadn't agreed before because he is afraid he is going to get bashed. The place we are going is a marriage and family therapy practice. The counselor is marriage and family certified and PRO marriage. It was the first question I asked. I do not want someone to tell me to separate.
I have no intention of letting the OW see me do anything. I am not acknowledging the emails at all. I am 100% sure they are from her and I will not give her the time of day. H said he would call her and tell her to stop and I said absolutely not because she is looking for that and NC is the way it has to be forever. He agreed.
H is being very forthcoming over the past few days. We had a conversation about the OW the other night. It wasn't heated...H admitted he felt needed by her and she boosted his ego. My IC told me nostalgia is a drug and addicting. That is exactly what happened. OW has shown her true colors and H thought the emails were unacceptable because he knows I have done nothing. I have not and will not contact OW...ever. I have way to much class for that.
H told me this morning that he wants this 100%...he knows I love him but right now don't like him very much. He is giving me my space. I can tell he is unsettled by my behavior.
