Yes it looks like she is dating OM, she say it not sexual and they are just hanging out and going for a drink!
As if to say it is okay to date others when you are in a marriage.
She loves you.......for what it's worth? But if pushed, she would not think it's worth giving up OM.
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We have sat down and agreed that we need to start acting like a couple who have separated, not more best friend talk, no more family meals, no more living in limbo land.
I love her and would do anything to sort this out, but need to be treated with respect!
She can't eat cake and have me as back up anymore, I have to set boundaries.
She cried in bed last night and told me she loves me for what it's worth!
Hurting bad, but feeling stronger each day, just need to get a life!
Does this mean the two of you plan to continue staying in the same house together?
Have you thought more about your boundaries and what they are and how to state them?
This can be turned around. It is going to take a lot of tough love on your part.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
