Moving Ahead in UK - pt17 - been here so long!

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My W poked her head out of the fog at the weekend. Texted me twice and called once. Some of it was stuff she could have talked to me about when she picked the kids up, but I was polite and positive in my interaction.

However, she seemed to have put her head back in the fog yesterday when she brought the kids over with SD as she sat down on the setee and stared out of the window. That seems to be a problem, whenever SD comes, she reverts to being a hard ass. Don't know if this is some kind of defence mechanism or not. When she picked kids up later, with out SD, we chatted about S's birthday. I noticed that she is starting to have a 'poke about' when she comes to the flat. The past two times she has been looking in rooms etc. Maybe she thinks I've got somebody else.

So, if the fog is lifting slightly, do I make some kind of signal or just keep going as is? If she was going to come out of the fog, I don't want to give out the wrong signals.