Oh yes, the other thing I wanted to say is I do feel I have 'earned' my way out of the marriage and I think it is important to feel that way. smile

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus