Hi V, sorry to hear you've been having a rough patch and PTSD symptoms. I still feel I'm healing from trauma - though our circumstances have been different. It does take time and is a process, and you are getting there and will get there.

Yes, your H is responsible for his chosen path, for how he chooses to deal with things and interact with others. I feel lucky that I had a happy childhood with parents who I feel did their best. Not everyone is so lucky and the impact plays out in adult lives.

Ultimately we all hope to live peacefully with ourselves, regardless of what others may choose to do.

Hope this rough patch passes quickly and take care xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus