Hi EDF, that sounds fair enough to me and yes, not a particularly positive response from her. It sounds as though she remains in a pretty wayward and unrepentant mindset just now.

So, she now knows what you know. And she also knows that she would need to work hard to repair things if that's what she wants.

For now, I would let things settle and leave her to reflect on all of that. Put your focus into GAL for yourself and moving forward independently of her.

Now that you have said she would need to work hard to repair things, it is important to 'live that.'

Take care smile


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