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Hi Bright, thanks for your kind message on my thread. I'm glad you had a nice lunch with your S for Mothers Day. I wouldn't worry about the lack of acknowledgement from your H on that day - who knows where he is at. I think the main thing is your S showed you his gratitude and appreciation on that special day - which is lovely to hear.

Glad you have some nice GAL plans going on and pleased to hear about your trip too. As for your H - yes, I get the feeling that as long as you carry on as you are - there may be a 'security blanket' feel about the whole situation for your H. You're already noticing that if you change things up a little, the response from H changes. I would never suggest completely dropping the rope to try and 'wake someone up.' But if you are tired and ready to completely drop the rope because that works best for you, then go for it I say.

Xx