Hi Vanilla. I'm sorry that you are having a rough patch. Know that my thoughts are with you, and as you always say - his circus, his monkeys. You are absolutely right that WH needs to fix his own issues.

Sometimes busy is good, sometimes busy is more distraction than you need. Try to carve out time for yourself and the things you need to do to heal.

Hugs for V.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16