Toast - burnt or just right

[rich4j]

thanks to both of you

I did listen to MWD video and I have issue with it just because of my daughters age and the mindset of my STBX. She is in denial, defensive and blames all the worlds issues on me so I can never see her going for an approach that puts her in the crosshairs. She would be defensive and say "your dad is at fault..... "...maybe not to her in front of me but definitely ongoing.

I do see my therapist tomorrow as I have struggled with the recent exposure of the full on cheating I ignored and how to work with my daughter thru these tough times. I don't want to lie but also know my STBX would never agree to this approach. I would need to do it solo and let the chips fall where they may....perhaps once I move out to bring the truth to the forefront.