Oh and a word to the wise about drafting a no-contact letter. It MUST be reviewed and approved by you prior to sending out to the OM and it MUST be cc'd to you. No quibbling on this one.
There are some really good ones on the Internet. My favorite ones are focused on the "incredibly hurtful and selfish act that broke up my marriage and family. My focus is on mending the damage that my thoughtless actions had on my husband and family. For this to be effective, there has to be no further contact EVER with you at all. Please do not contact me by email, texts, calls, Facebook messages, or any other form of communication......blah blah."
