Maybell XXXVIII: Settling In

[Zues126]

I'm with you MB. If I were with a woman I'd want her to stay the heck away from any guys, particularly any she was intimate with historically. I'm not interested in whether she is sad at the inability to preserve a friendship. If she wants a relationship with another guy, then she's not getting one with me.

Now, what you can do about it at this point is another question. I guess from here you can't change him, so you just have to let it eat at you now and then.

Look on the bright side. You can either accept a flawed relationship and deal with some pangs here and there to get something that's overall pretty good, or you can be like me and just wall yourself off from everyone because you aren't willing to come out of your hiding place and deal with the irritating reality that relationships aren't everything we wished they could be. I'm cozy here, but I think you're on the right track...