Sandi - I actually went ahead and re-read your story and post from Amy early on in your situation. I think I may have answered my on question re-reading some of your stuff. Thanks again for how much your contribute to this forum. You truly are a inspiration.
Me-LBH, 44 Spouse-WAW, 41 Married for 9 years S, 7 S, 5 BD - November 20th 2015