Hi Vanilla, thank you for the advise. I think so, i need to get out do some good adult GAL.

As Sandhi said and i think this is true, her heart has not caught up to her behavior.

I think i have been pursuing to much. Need to focus more on me and my son.

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.