Acc,
I brought up the possibility of me leaving in MC. I said, I've been thinking the best move may be for me to get my own place after S graduation so that we can both have the space we need. The look on her and MC face was crazy.
She says, "this is the emotional roller coaster I'm talking about. It's exhausting(starts crying). One minute you say you want to do everything to save this maririage and make sure S has the stability we didn't have. Then the next you are talking about moving out. Pick a lane and stay on it"
She definitely got upset. Also said that I would just move out to show her how hard it would be with out me and to just prove a point.
She went on to say that she said she was done fighting for us now but that she would think her actions on speaking more than her words.
And that's he confusing part. She has been doing more "loving" things lately
We even went to target and bought a bunch of new stuff for kitchen in the house
The problem I have right now which is making me want to leave is feeling like nothing more than a good friend.
She certainly isn't feeling my love tank with my language which is physical touch


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it