Toast - burnt or just right

[rich4j]

thanks CWOL/Sadhub.....

Have only been posting in supporting others but hit a bad cycle this week with knowing now what I suspected months ago in that she has someone else she has been seeing and she is in total denial. But it doesn't matter now and she hinted at things didn't get started until after she filed so she is "clean"

Ugh. And hit a lonely patch....it will be a year of this up and down come end of summer.

Rich,
But he understands that it's instigated by WW and not me.
I'm fighting the sadness and resentment just like you, they cycle through constantly.

CWOL- question? Did you have the discussion with your S11 that his mom instegated this? How did that go?

We are trying to be civil about this part of things as my D is young (turning 7) and leaving it as a "we" decided versus the latter. Not sure if that is something I tell her in the future but it will be spun anyway that I was the reason for the split no matter what.... Kills me