You are right - things will be divided 50/50 and child support will be based on the state's formula. I'm having a tough time right now because I am out of the house and experiencing an upside down life and for her everything is business as usual.
I'm totally okay with the kids moving. I completely agree that the kids need a loving environment, whether that is a mansion or a dumpy apartment, it doesn't matter as long as the parent is a good parent. She, however, is determined to stay.
I have committed myself to being amicable and do not want to have this morph into a battle and create bad blood between us forever more. I've been biting my tongue on several issues and my tongue is starting to bleed.