I Used to Like Rollercoasters

[TimR]

That's the hard thing Hope. Are they waiting to try and be guilt free, working out their own demons or genuinely confused??? And what are you supposed to do in the mean time? Such a personal decision to face, especially in light of the fact there are no guarantees.

But it may not be all about guilt... I am very certain that since I moved on my WW is more upset about that than anything else right now. She had tried to work a reaction out of me a couple weekends ago and when she saw that there was none because I am truly done with her, she did not know what to do.

I many WS that I think are just not satisfied or have their own issues to deal with and while they search that out and don't want the LBS, they also don't want the LBS to find happiness in the meantime. That could be for fear of losing them or because of their own warped sense of entitlement. IDK.

Just keep working to try and find your happiness that is not attached to another person. In this journey I have found things that I did not know would make me happy actually do make me content. I am very goal oriented and found I have lost sight of that. So I created new goals for myself. Achieving them really builds a sense of pride in me. I am now finding that guy I was before meeting WW and I feel younger for rediscovering myself. I hope you can too!