blueboy - you'll also want to read sandi2's great posts on the mind of a WW by the sounds of it. She's buttering you up so that you'll stick around as her Plan B. Just imagine that she's trying to sell you a used car instead of the great things she says. One other strategy that a WW will use (my own tried) is to try to push you on to someone else to make their own guilt less.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
