I'm against 'friends' too. For one, why would you want to be friends? Two, believe that is a ploy for them lessening guilt or buttering you up for a nice D, or to keep you on the back burner. Either one is not fair to you and actually prolongs detachment.
Ralph88 Me 40s W 30s, D5 D3 , M7 T9 2013 B drop 1, EA found 2016 B drop 2, EA/PA? 2/16 Physical Seperation 2/16 I filed for D 4/16 PA Confirmed