Husband needs support part 2

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Accuray,
That is really good D advice. Sounds like you are able to achieve complete Detachment enlightenment.
Somehow I don't see myself ever getting to that "amicable" stage though. I guess right now things are just so raw and bitter, and I don't see the D process making it any better at all. How were you able to overcome that? Every time I got an email from my D lawyer my blood pressure goes up, I was afraid any time my cell phone chimed with any incoming email during the heat of the first negotiations. It's always been a steady stream of bad news, at least in my eyes.