Hi Focus, that was a tough thing to happen and I'm not surprised you feel a little knocked back by it - ugh. Well, I guess your H will do what he will do and your MIL will do what she will do - that's on them.

When yukky things happen it does tend to plunge us back a little. But over time it does get easier to regain calm and PMA afterwards. And there comes a point (and most get to this point) where we shrug and don't feel upset by things.

The main thing is to trust in the path you are on and give it your best shot. Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus