G, I'm gonna say this and if it is not needed then disregard it but know I say it because I care about you. Remember, this man wouldn't give you what you needed and, not only that, didn't bat an eye before starting another R...in fact, he started it before your R had even ended. That scares the hell out of me! Yes, I'm sure he has some wonderful qualities (or you wouldn't have been with him!) but he is also quite capable of compartmentalizing feelings big time. I don't believe this started due to the pain of a failed marriage, I tend to believe this way of dealing with feeling and relationship is a life long behaviour. This will not change!This does not mean he's a "bad" person but is someone who's bad for you! Don't let him "park" you...and leave that little light glowing in your head. Walk away and keep going...don't keep in touch or be his FB friend...and tell the friend who keeps updating you to stop!!!! You've got your "completion" so it's time to let go and keep moving. You deserve so much more! OK, rant finished
