1. He talks to his ex-wife very frequently and even hangs out with her sort of regularly.

2. I go through patches where im very insecure with him. Im in one now, I think because I have the kids three weekends in a row (Mr. Fantastic's travel) so I don't get to spend enough time with NG.

3. I'm realizing that I would like to see this get closer & deeper and Item 1 worries me.

4. The trust thing is coming VERY hard to me. It's a constant struggle.

We're planning a week away together in June and I can't quite believe it's going to happen, that he's that into me, and that I'm not overlooking some critical red flag that should send me screaming for the hills. Because I'm starting to believe that he really is amazing.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.