Wayward: Turned or turning away from what is right or proper; willful; disobedient
I do not think an affair has to be present, in order to define a wayward. Waywardness begins in the heart. Resentment and disrespect may be shown in small or great degrees thoughout years of M, or maybe in a shorter period of time. Usually, some form of rebellion is displayed. It is not always an affair........but it's most common in what we see here.
If you don't want to believe the definition above fits your W, that's up to you. Considering she was the one who didn't want to work on the M and she was the one who stopped MC..........and the fact that she turned away from her H, her vows, home, and MR without there being some solid explanation for ending the M..........and she has bought her a condo........well, just saying...........she doesn't appear to be broken up about it.
ok, I misunderstood. I thought that was used as nomenclature on this site in particular for a cheating spouse. I totally agree about waywardedness. What really [censored] is that I believe she IS broken up about it, and has no idea how to express it. Like I said before, she's an emotional brick wall. Not without cracks though, that let me get a glimpse of whats really going on. I know she is not happy, I don't know why, and its not up to me to figure out, I'm just a casualty. Its all just a sad situation. But I can't help her right now, only myself.