But..... still the same issues. he couldn't handle the distance and the commitment to the effort it takes to make the distance work....It still comes back to the same issues I can't resolve. It's not for me to resolve. And I know this.
Well....what can we say? I knew ex-NG would be mourning the loss of you. The man is a fool. He threw away the best thing that ever happened to him AND to his daughter, because he is afraid of commitment...and isn't willing to put forth the effort needed to be in a committed relationship with a woman who doesn't live around the corner, or better yet, with him.
You're right G, it's not up to you to try to solve ex-NG's issues. Anyway, I predict that ex-NG is going to decide that the work it would take to have a relationship with you IS worth the effort. And equally predict that you will be snapped up and in a committed, loving relationship with a fella named new-NG by then......
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
