What Should I be doing 3

[Coconut]

CBT, I hear what you are saying, and I am listening... It's hard because she is so much more like her old self, it really feels like she is working her way back, but she still hasn't shown remorse, still very tight lipped and only answers questions, so I know better, this why I'm prepared to move forward without her, I just really want to hear what Wonka wanted to say...


Sandi, OMG, I went back and read your Sitch, at least the first 10 days, and it was eye opening to read your perspective.. I just wonder, your involvement was so much deeper than my WW (I'm starting to believe it was only 3 weeks long, although there was kissing) is it possible for her to come back without total NC? Other than short breaks during classes, and short responses to fire station for calls, she hasn't been away from the house, and there definitely hasn't been any contact by electronic communication (I've verified and reverified).

I'm not wavering on my stance of not being in a 3 way R, just wondering if it's possible for her not to be in one, being that there is only limited contact...

Also, would it be a bad idea to buy her the book "Every Woman's Battle" and just put it on her nightstand?