I am in the same boat brother. My solace is twofold. One Sandi always says that she doesn't know of any case where in home seperated couples have reconciled, so this will increase those chances, should you want it. Two, if in home S hasn't worked in the past year, then I have to try something new. Do what works, right? I think this is a great opportunity for us to show ourselves what we are made of. Whether when faced with adversity we cower away or step up to it is the true measure of a man. I think that it allows us the opportunity to focus on what's important to us and not what the W is thinking or why she's angry. The actions we take will determine the outcome, and from what I've read, you will be just fine biz.