Hey Vise I agree with Pinn, the fact that she asked why you're being all weird with the trailer means that she doesn't get it. She still wants/expects to cake eat, get as much as she can from you and offer some crumbs (helping with furniture). I do think that this is a wonderful opportunity though to prove to her that Vise doesn't need her, that he can put furniture together himself or with his friends and that things are going to be differentnow that you live in seperate houses. Let her feel the loss. That's what will bring pursuit.