It does seem easy to fix - I've said that. We talked about how we never want to go back to the way things used to be. He says that for so long he felt I didn't want to be with him (sexually) and now he's not sure that he even wants it anymore. Like, he got so used to not having it that he doesn't even want it anymore. I can't make him want to be with me again. Either he does or he doesn't.


Me: 37
Husband: 35
Married 5 years, together 13
Daughter - 1
Bomb dropped - 12/28/2015
He's moving out (officially) - 4/15/2016
EA confirmed 6/1/16
PA confirmed 8/1/16