Lost and scared

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Jzmill & Doodler:

Here is the best part of my "minefield" story. When I told the OM in the EA to get lost. He did. He wants my W and I to succeed. That I do not apologize for. I told my W that me telling another man that you are my wife and it's not cool for him to have a "secret relationship" with her is not honorable.

Funny, the only support I got was from the OM. Great example of winning the battle and losing the war (See today's post on my thread for more info).

Jzmill -

- do not interfere
- do not snoop
- do not question
- do not take drastic actions
- do not retaliate i.e. have your own affair, etc

It's a lose lose situation. Make sure you are on the lighter side of the loss.