While DBing, I'm trying not to lose site of the fact that this may go all the way through. And if so, to make sure financially I'm not screwed, as much as thats possible.

When she comes to me with this stuff, I just don't want to have a stone wall, which would force her to go through a lawyer from the start. I know no matter what we will need to have one at the end to check over each of our wants, more importantly mine.

I had 1 phone consultation with a lawyer and I think I need to have a few more to make sure I'm not caught in a bad spot and not prepared


M:13 years
Known her for 30 years!
Me: 40
W: 38
Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7
BD: 02/07/2016
Found EA: 3/22/2016
Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16
Got Papers: 6/15/16