Hi WH. Thank you for your update, congrats on your engagement and I am very sorry to hear your X plans about the kids. I am not sure where you live, but I am in California and was told by my lawyer that the courts listen to the kids now. If they really don't want more time with H, they may have a voice.
Good luck and best wishes.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-