Thank you, TabD. I am sorry you find yourself here. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy…okay I would probably wish it on X. LOL.

Any encouragement you have is very welcome and appreciated. It has been over 4 years since my BD. I don't want my X any longer and can't even stand being around him for more than 30 seconds. And I am still being dragged into drama. Less than before, of course, because I stand back and refuse to help. It's time like this I wish I had a magic 8 ball that could tell me what to do.

X is even more delusional now that before, I'm afraid. S was telling me last night that now since the surgery his dad is on pills and they make him crazier than normal (S's words, not mine). Everyone in that house except for my kids are on some kind of medication.

But I'm just trying to stay level headed at the moment. It's very important when dealing with a nut case to stay level headed. Not sure if I should confront him or not? Maybe that's just what he wants.

WH

AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"