She's looking for ANY reason to leave, and I'm not giving a one.
Just don't get too focused on you trying to do everything to please her, in hopes of not giving her a reason to leave. Listen, the H doesn't have to do a thing......not one single thing wrong, and if she wants to leave.......she will. Even if she has to twist the truth inside out, she'll do it. So you focus on your values and beliefs. You take care of you and do what YOU want to do. Trust me when I say, she is going to do what she wants.
I the H makes a big mistake when he falls into a mode of walking around on eggshells and trying to please his WW. Once she is out of her waywardness and the couple has therapy to work through their M issues, then both of them should find pleasure in doing things they know pleases one another. But don't do it to try and win her back or to keep her from leaving.
Oh, in answer to your question about bullying, you can google emotional bullying, or female bullying in relationships, etc.
Oh yea, I'm very much taking the mentality of hey, you wanna go, there's the door. She has expressed that she wishes it wasn't like this. She says she WANTS to be married, but doesn't know HOW right now, and what she says scares her is that there is no desire to work on it right now.
As far WW, I thought that definition includes a cheating spouse. I think she's a WAW, as there has been no cheating between us. Recently or in past.
