Out of In house S- Start of two homes (10)

[vise82]

Hey sadsara,

I think I want to let her know through actions that she does not want me as her husband I don't thing that a husband does.

My plan was to not make a grand announcement but for it to be evident in what I do. I think I handled the trailer thing ok. I will have the trailer available to her empty. She can return it to me empty.

She thinks in her mind that I have to take it to the dump to empty it why not brig her garbage there at the same time.

I see no issues with seeing her place.

She wanted to give each other keys for each other places. I handled that one with having a lock box at my house with the key in it. I can change the code on it as needed.

Then the helping me out with stuff at my house.

I will have to not ask her for help. I am tempted as it would be time spent together and helping me, but she may want the same from me to help her. And really she is not very helpful for that type of stuff.

SO this is where DBing is seeing some changes in the dynamic. I would call her pursuing right now. Or at least temp checking.

Just one day at a time. I have so much to do with this move.