What Should I be doing 3

[Coconut]

So a day later, WW still hasn't come to me to ask OM if he will change fire stations...

Last night I was in bed when W came home, I asked her to come lay with her head on my shoulder so we could just chat, it's been a LONG time since we just chatted, something we did when we first started dating... We talked about experiences when we where younger, things we have done in our lives before M, no pressure, no R or M talk.. My W teared up a few times, it was very nice to just talk as friends, probably not the best idea, but I needed a night were I could let go of all the stress and just talk to the woman I've known for so long.. Wrong or not, it felt good..

Wonka, I'm gonna need that come to Jesus talk soon, WW hasn't asked OM to change stations, she's not given any indication that she is going to withdraw from academy, she hasn't even deleted him as a Facebook friend (all the firefighters are friends on FB), so I don't really see anyway for me to continue living there without accepting an open M, which I'm not willing to do... Although I do believe that she has ceased contact for now, I also believe it could just be a pause until I start trying to trust her again...

Sandi, any thoughts?