Well its happening. She is moving out this weekend. It was getting close I thought to her staying - but in the end she is choosing her work over me. She and I had some scuffles over her work and she thinks that won't change. For me the scuffle was over her EA and what I did to find out about it and stop it.
So that chapter is closed. I'm sad. I'm happy that the kids and I will stay put. She is moving done the road. I'll need to build some firm boundaries - i.e. no drop ins, etc. The detachment will be so much easier now that she will be out of the house. Certainly going dark too.
I think I will start a new thread on Sunday.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017