Your friend sounds on point. Please detach. Detach and plan your life as if you are single, that's what I am doing. I am proving to myself that I have what it takes to be independent. If H realizes he is losing a wonderful wife and day-to-day contact with his kids then maybe he will realize what he has to do to build a new marriage. He needs to make changes and in the meantime, I am making my own personal changes to be a better mom and person.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
