I think it's time for some healthy detachment. I would even consider turning the phone off when he's out carousing. If necessary let him know that you will be doing this as you need to care for yourself and what he did was akin to emotional abuse last night. Is there a support group locally for family of addicts?
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
