Still speaking to my former WW friend, this is an excerpt from an email that i got from my WW, and my friends understanding... (I never spoke about any R stuff, only money and gaining independence)
"Enough, I am not strong enough to deal with this...You want a better wife then get you one, I cant change and refuse to do so to please other people, be who I am not...Stop crying for me!!!!"
i need you to read these msgs again and again until it sinks in. She does not want to change for you, even if it will save her marriage and family.. which means she doesn't care for it. You do not need to talk when you get home, stick to your decisions... The only reason she is saying she isn't strong enough, is she doesn't know how she is going to cope financially without you. She keeps saying she wants to save your marriage... so all she actually wants to do, is keep you around for money!! Because she just said she isn't willing to change!!!! She is not crying Dustin. You are. She is trying to get back into your heart so you can change your mind about the money.
I told my friend, I LOVE YOU RIGHT NOW!
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
