Spoke to the W last night and explain that we can't live in limbo land, asked her to move out of bed as sharing a bed whilst she is seeing OM is not on, and that she need to pay half towards cost of running house whilst we sale if this is what see really wants!
She couldn't understand way I was being like this as it a mutual split, to which I informed her, no you are leaving me for OM!
I then went out and when I came back she had been drinking and told me everything was my fault, she told me that I don't love her and never have! That what she is doing is because of me and is my fault!
She seem generally shocked and keep asking me what I'm doing, where I'm going! She seemed tearful this morning as she left for work...
Me: 40 W: 36 T21 M17 S12 D10 D10 ILYBNILWY EA happened. PA happened. June 2016 trying to piece our M and life's back together...