I cant help but "wait' for him if thats what you want to call it. Im moving forward as best as I can given the situations I am in and trying to figure out. He hasn't called me, and lately has not text me, so I have no opportunities to not answer his phone calls or texts. So I guess that means his mind is set and this is what he wants. That said, isnt that one of the points of DB - that one spouse feels they are completely done?
I'm checking in on you again.....
None of what he is doing necessarily means anything. Maybe he is working on his own demons? I think mine is. Haven't heard from him for a while either. But that seems to be his pattern now.
I hope you can focus on yourself and try and get out there and do the things YOU enjoy. It does help to keep busy. And keep reading these forums and any self help books/downloads you can get your hands on. Sometimes all of that seems really intense and your head is spinning.....have another light hearted novel handy!
I've been researching Narcissism - that's my H to a T. It makes me feel better knowing that I couldn't have changed him. He needs to work on himself, I can't do it for him.
Sending you love and strength!
Last edited by Cadet; 05/17/1603:19 AM.
Me:54 Him:58 3 Adult children between us. I am H 2nd wife. My 1st marriage. Married:8 Together: 12 Separated: 1 Aug 2015 Status: Separated In NZ we need to be separated 2 years before we can divorce.
