The priority here is on your GAL and even if that involves a quick visit to a coffee shop that's good.
Get out have some good adult GAL.
Your priority here is looking after YOU so that you can best look after your child.
Sandi advice is solid.
It is what is in your WW heart which counts, remorse for being caught isn't the right start for reconciliation. Unless she changes her cheating heart, beliefs and thoughts then this is just behaviour modification.
I think you need to see real work by WW to come to true ethical behaviour.
Take care to protect yourself in this, I can't see piecing.
Changing you and your behaviour is only one part of the equation in your R. It's early days be clear if there is change or no.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW