ok, got a bit emotional now. WW tells friends that she's trying to make things work. I replied to all with "her coming in at 10am and spending the day with another man is not trying". I then replied to her alone and said "i will not cover up your affairs".

I probably should not have sent the first email to all, but F it. That's just how i felt. I will not condone her behaviour and make like she's trying.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.