You definitely handling it better than i would.

If i found out that my W ea was actually physical my honor would demand payment in blood. Not exactly moving forward but i'd be satisfied atleast.

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.