Interesting point about her records. I can see why D17 would want to insure her privacy in that regard, though it's a shame she has to wait to get it. As we know, though, you need to feel absolutely safe with a therapist or you can't trust them. If you can't trust them, they can't help you.

You've got quite an astute daughter that she understands that already.

You're doing great, SadHub, giving support but yet giving her the space she needs to sort out her own thoughts and feelings.

((SadHub))

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16