Well H has been out drinking again tonight. He started to text me about his basketball team winning. I responded politely to him. I told H yes it was a good win for your team. I left it at that. Now H is drinking and drinking and I can tell he is drunk by his messages.

H sends this message to me "Just so you know. Can't take a phone call right now. watching the game with a couple of friends but there is a female that I have been talking to that has been a good emotional connection to me. Just thought you should know
I didn't respond as I didn't know how to H blew up my phone wanting a response. I finally sent back "Sorry that it took me a moment to respond. I was processing this. I was worried but I'm glad you are safe."

He has been going on and on. I don't know what to do. Afraid H will come home and be angry because I'm not playing into his mess emotions or whatever.

I'm trying hard to detach but why do they do this.

wife of an addict
M 39 H 39
D18 D 16
Together 19 M17