I guess a question I have is, should i be trying to have more contact with her, or continue status quo. I have not discovered A but still dont rule it out. I would like advice from a veteran Dber. Sandi, any advice on my sitch at this point?
I'm not sandi, or experienced by any means, but I've talked to multiple coaches from multiple resources (not just DB Coaches), and ALL of them say, if you initiate R talks, and it seems bad, awkward, etc... stop doing it. It's okay to lay a hint, but if that hint goes ignored, or turns bad, stop doing it all together and back off completely. Detach, and go minimal. Gifts are a bad idea, as romantic gestures are not what she's wanting from you right now.
