Not sure exactly what your question was about the Ls earlier...
Well last week I was contemplating it - after talking to some friends have decided it's not worth the additional friction it would cause right now.
I think it's fair to say most of us going through this are questioning and over-thinking our actions daily as to what will be good and won't be good for the long-term successful outcome of busting the D. (Which I want to believe most of us here want... )
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17
Been a pretty good week so far of DB, tempted to snoop on Tuesday when W was home but resisted the urge, although I think she may have saw me watching her leave last night. Been distant communicating only when she reaches out and often delayed.
This morning has been particularly rough as I woke up really missing her in the bed beside me. Perhaps it's because I have family coming tonight and know she wont be around. I opened myself up to prayer and found it helpful but tears have been flowing this morning.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17