Need some help from the DB community! Crunch Time!

[cbtdad]

Funny you mentioned that Acc
I sent MC an email telling him I liked the exercise we did last time which even got the W to ask the question, "how do we fix it"
He responded thanks for the feedback and now he knows what direction to head in.
To me love is absolutely a choice. If you choose to do something the feelings will follow. I've already noticed that myself. When I do things for W it makes me feel good about the situation. Then in return she has been cooking, etc lately. Which she knows is a big deal for me.
Our problem is exactly what you talk about. I can count so many times that W does an "act of service" for me but I don't think its a big deal and don't respond how I should. That's her love language and I don't know it. Im trying to learn it
Mine is physical touch. Not just sex, but give me a hug and kiss when I get home and I would run circles for her
Its the cycle that has to be broken